In the last post, I mentioned contacting your ex for a little "reunion". Believe it or not, your ex can be quite helpful in your pursuit to get laid...even if your ex is completely unwilling or is somebody you wouldn't even touch to rescue from a burning building. Ah, breakup sex...that which causes such mediocre satisfaction but prevents you from pining away after the idiot you were with before. Breakup sex...that which reminds you that you are "good enough, smart enough, and doggonit, people like you."
Now, you may not have had a particularly traumatic breakup. You could have been the one to initiate the breakup. You could be doing cartwheels down the halls because of your breakup. However, keep that to yourself. Get those sad puppy eyes ready. This is manipulation 101.
When you are sad about a breakup, people feel sorry for you...at least right after the breakup they do...around a month later, it's getting really old. While still in that window of people feeling sorry for you, they will want to comfort you. Find that person who you would consider "most likely to fill your needs" and make contact. Call/text/bbm/gtalk/Facebook/whatever the person if you are friends. Don't be annoyingly whiney, but mention that you and your significant other recently broke up and that you are looking for something to do because you just don't feel like sitting in. Say that you really need to get out and have fun. At this point, most people's ears will perk up. Recently broken up = EASY! Don't be offended by that. That's exactly what you are going for. This person thinks that he/she will be taking advantage of you and is excited by how easy you will be. In actuality, you are the manipulator. This person is like putty in your hands.
Now, post-breakup rebound sex has never ever failed me. In my own experience, it has a 100% rate of return. If you remember that you are not actually as upset as you are saying, then you will be fine. Just don't be a teary-eyed, whiney, pathetic mess. Be strong. Boldly state that you intend to have fun and make up for lost time. If someone doesn't take the bait, then that person is just too dense to be worth it.
Bonus Points:
Let's pretend this is a little game (because, let's face it, it is). Certain things will score you some bonus points...which basically are extra little bits of satisfaction over a job well done:
1) Revenge - While they say you should never use sex as a way of getting revenge on someone, I'd like to know who "they" are and why "they" think it is their business what you do. Revenge can be sweet and fulfilling, if there is reason to get some revenge. Think of it as giving karma a helping hand. What better way is there to get revenge than to sleep with your ex's friend? One way or another, your ex will find out about it (you'll make sure of that...lol). This will cause a rift in your ex's friend group. Make sure your new fuck buddy knows the "truth" about the breakup. Your ex's social circle just got a whole lot smaller...poor baby...lol.
2) Trading Up - According to Ivana Trump, "Don't get mad. Get everything!" Now, if you're not getting a divorce, you can't get financial assets. Sorry. You can, however, get everything you want in a partner. You don't need to settle for just any rebound fuck buddy. Find an amazing fuck buddy or even an amazing relationship. You are no longer limited! You'll be happy again...and your ex will be rather upset or angry at that.
I had thought of a few other ways of scoring some bonus points, but I am completely blanking right now. It's that time of day. So, this leaves us at a perfect place for a question:
-What are other ways of scoring bonus points during post-breakup sex?
-In your experience, has this method worked? Why or why not?
-Does post-breakup sex tend to make you feel better or feel worse? Explain.
As always, keep it anonymous. You want to do all of the things that would get you a bad reputation, but without actually getting the bad reputation.
Broke up on a Thursday and fucked someone that Sunday,
Evil Temptress
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